Who said this is Easy?

"Success consists of going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm" ~ Winston Churchill

In reality it's only been 3 years since I started by photography as a business. It took me almost 2 years before then to convince myself I had what it takes. And though it should've been reason enough to "hear" that I had a talent for photography from family & friends, it just wasn't.  I felt that my confidence needed to be stronger and I needed to be able to say that I was able and ready to take on whatever challenges lay ahead. Best of all I needed to convince myself that I could actually charge a reasonable rate for my "artwork".

There are so many challenges, and so many failures, but amongst the most common issues a photographer endures, such as weather, lighting, composition, corrupt SD cards, software failure, time crunches, editing failures, forgetting equipment, non-cooperating clients (ie: kids, babies), marketing, scheduling conflicts, financials etc, ..............there are EMOTIONAL Challenges & Failures as well.

I walked straight into this business with the confidence I felt I needed, Finally. But I wish I had someone tell me that I also needed the strength, positivity and courage to deal with the "other" hidden challenges. The ones that most keep bottled up or vent to with only their closest and most trusted companions............

Most of us photographers only work alone. We love the fact that we can use our own styles, make our business successful by whatever path we choose; use whatever techniques we want to in order to create that perfect composition or how we will go about marketing ourselves. We never considered how hard it would be to cope with politics, and those devastating, unanswered reasons why a past client went to another photographer after a successful last session with them.
Oh come on! Admit it, we have all had it happen. And if it hasn't yet, it will ;)

Does it mean that you need to pack it all in and give up? Nahhhh. Not at all.
Does it mean that you don't have the right to ask why? or feel betrayed, jealous or hurt? Nahhh, Go ahead. We all have feelings. We all wish we could get the answers right from the source. But in reality, you don't need it. YOU DON'T! Why? The answer is clear...............

Cients will come and go. Some will come to you because you specialize in newborns and go elsewhere because the next photographer specializes in families. Some will come to you before looking at your portfolio and then realize that your style just isn't their preference. Some will go to those that charge less. Some will go to those only because they received a gift card for another photographer. There are many reasons why........try not to let it get to you.

Now, who would've thought that being in your OWN studio, in your OWN home editing or out on your OWN session would land you in the middle of photography politics?? What kind of photographer chooses to judge you for what you post on Facebook, who you use as a vendor for props, what you choose to do with your skills or what clients they get over yours?
Well....... these just may be the ones that DO like your work and feel the need to keep close tabs on you *wink wink*. 

I truly believe that jealousy and competition are on the same team
So try, try, try to NOT get caught up in the middle of it. Do NOT bite back.

It's funny, because I thought that I would have so much to say about "Competition/Politics" but I almost find it's so "simple" it's stupid.

"I would much rather create as many friends within my photography circle as I can. It's so great to work together, share together and feel like you belong to a supporting community." ~ Lindsay Foster Photography

Success consists of going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm.
Winston Churchill

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Success consists of going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm.
Winston Churchill
Read more at http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/topics/topic_success.html#qQwhmBqIG3VsdOB1.99

Success consists of going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm.
Winston Churchill
Read more at http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/topics/topic_success.html#qQwhmBqIG3VsdOB1.99

Paycut for Happiness

This image above couldn't explain it any better. 

I get the question quite often:

How does it feel now that you are a FULL time photographer & doing what you LOVE? 

Well, it's only been two weeks and I am a whirlwind of emotions. I am so happy that I am finally doing what I love to do. Getting up every morning to start the day has more purpose than ever before. However, it is such a drastic change to my every day routine that I am a little shell shocked and scared.
I literally wake up every day and go straight to my computer to edit, market, email, research etc. with pure enjoyment that I occasionally stop what I'm doing, feel guilty for doing it, and then quickly realize, HEY! This IS what you are supposed to be doing, YES, keep going!! 

I never knew it was possible to enjoy work so much that you feel guilty about it, HA!!!

What's my biggest Challenge?
Well, like most, making sure I can keep it going financially is a challenge. It's certainly a cut from what I was used to getting. But, like I said, I am getting a paycut for happiness.
Another is sticking to a routine. I have a huge list beside me of things that I MUST get done. I have so much to do that I get quickly sidetracked and jump from one thing to another. However, I do get things done, plus more ;)

What are some other perks about your new job?

Hands down, having my 3 year old home with me 2 days a week. I spent so much time, while working my last job, booking photo sessions after work or on weekends that I felt as though I never got to see my kids. So, this is perfect in every way. Come summer, I will have both of them home with me two days a week. Time to try to make up for lost time.

What is your new schedule now?
I will be booking Mondays, Wednesdays, Fridays and 2 weekends out of each month for families. I thought I would have issues booking during the week since most people work, but I have yet to have any issues with that. It works out so great!

Do you have new prices now that you're full time?
Not really new pricing, just simplified pricing. My goal is to make all my prices fit everyone including myself.
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What is a Welcome guide?I created a Welcome Guide for all my potential clients to get to know me as a person, what my goals & objectives are, where my specialties are and how to prepare yourself and your family for your session with me. Everything you need to know is all in this guide.
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"I am so thankful for my husband and children for believing in me. There's no better feeling!"
~Lindsay Foster

Blocked from Facebook for 24 hrs.

Let me first start off by saying that I am NOT a sexual offender, I am NOT

an abuser, I am NOT cruel to animals, and I am NOT into pornography. 

So why, when there are so many awful pictures and posts on Facebook, 

would I get banned for posting such a natural, beautiful (non-graphic)

picture of a beautiful baby girl?? What is so bad about it that I must be

told that I violated Facebook's rules??     

I worked long & hard to get where I am with my business page on FB.
I am devoted to keeping my fans updated & engaged with my latest photos 

and information.  I blog, I keep a website, Google+, FB, Flickr, Twitter,  

you name it. 

This is my life.

 My worry, as a Birth Photographer, is losing what I worked so hard for.

I am a good person, with a love for the natural and beautiful components of

Birth. This my friends, is what we call a "miracle". I have never known

a miracle to be offensive, pornographic, or abusive. 

Facebook has warned me that if I "violate" them one more time I will be

removed entirely and permanently. All because one person decided to go out

of their way to open up an album that was cleary called "Birth Photos"

and report just that, a "Birth Photo".  If you didn't want to see them, why

go and look in the first place?? 

Unfortunately, from now on, I will only be posting my Birth photos on this

blog and my website.  I worked too hard for my fan base and my business

page to have it shut down. :(

Some quotes from my fellow FB fans that have kept me moving forward:

"I am shocked anyone would think them anything but beautiful..."

"Personally if you don't like it then don't look. You had it titled birth photos for a reason. I thought they were beautiful and was appreciative to the mother for allowing us to see such a beautiful thing that is so private to so many"

"I love them! I thought your photographs captured all the emotions that an expecting couple have and I am sure it will bring them memories that otherwise would be forgotten. And how fortunate we all are that they allowed you to share them with us. Made me wish I had someone like you at my children's births."

"In a world where you can see nudity, blood, violence and gore on tv on a regular basis, why would anyone be offended or upset about seeing a miraculous birth. If you don't like it, don't look- but don't be rude for goodness sake!"

"Perhaps if someone doesn't want to see birth photos they shouldn't "like" a birth photigrapher! BTW, the pics were amazing and I thought they were done in a very tasteful way."

"That I would have cherished forever. There is nothing more beautiful than the birth of a child. everyone is a little miracle and to be able to capture that would have been something you hold close to your heart. Continue with your amazing work, you get to be there for each miracle and give the parents a treasure."

"It amazes me that anyone would have a negative thing to say about one of the most beautiful miracles in life... they must be quite antiquated and out of touch."

"Why look if you don't like it? That's like walking into a strip club and being pissed that there are naked women! If you don't like that kind of thing then just stay away from it!"

"Why would someone open an album called birth photos if they don't like it?"

These birth pictures are only the beginning of many more albums to come. Like it or not!

Oh, one last touch to this blog:  ;)

Birth of Payton Feb.15th 2013

I was so I was so privileged to have witnessed the birth of my close friends baby girl on February 15th 2013. It was a long tiring day for both Mama & Daddy but they worked hard as a team and delievered a very healthy, loud and beautiful baby girl Payton. I cannot say it enough how much I enjoy capturing these precious moments in time. As every mother says during labour "I cannot possibly see how these pictures are going to be nice". Well, as you can see, they turned out great! And she is super happy with them. I am sure that she will continuously go back and look at them from time to time. to time.

I'm a Mom too, I need to do this... and be proud :)

There have been far too many moments in my life where I feel that I just haven't done enough in this world to make a difference in the lives of others. Within the last 2 years I have been able to create memories for parents and families that will hopefully be seen for generations, whether it be a picture in a shoe box, an album or a portrait on the wall. These pictures not only represent a precious time or phase in life......but they also represent me, and who I am.

I recently received a phone call from the father of McKenna Modler. This sweet girl has battled a brain tumor at a very young age of life and has also succeeded in making a difference in others through McKenna's Dream. Her father mentioned how, as parents of a child like McKenna, it is so important to have such keepsakes to hold onto forever. They get so tangled up in the busy life of traveling to hospitals and keeping appointments etc, that unfortunately, they just miss the opportunity to snap a picture here & there. So, it was so nice to hear how the pictures I took of McKenna has been a memory that they can look back on and remember for years to come.

McKenna's father suggested I continue to do this for families such as theirs. How special would it be for families who can't leave the hospital to have me come to them if needed? Or just be a part of their everyday life?  I'm a mom too, I need to do this for these families and children.

So, I am now proud to say that I am now a part of the Tiny Light Foundation.

"The Tiny Light Foundation is a non profit organization that provides professional photography for children and families that have been faced with a life altering diagnoses.

We provide families with the lasting memories through the amazing art of photography. With the help of many photographers throughout Canada we are able to provide families with photos they can share and help carry the many memories.

Our mission is to provide and capture memories that will help provide a family with one less thing to worry about. In the mist of dealing with doctors appointments, specialist appointments or just the daily life of medicines, rushing here to there for weights, check ups, and the many many other things we deal with in everyday life. A lot of the time photographs seem to take a back burner and not only with time, but with funds. When we look back we want to remember and even though you may not forget what you and your child has gone through we always want more we need the memories to last "Forever".

We at The Tiny Light Foundation feel that helping families create these memories is very important. Each of us has somehow been touched by a family member or friend who has had to endure a life altering experience and looking back we know the importance of these special moments. So whether you have a child or know a child who would benefit from a professional photo session. Please know we are here to help. Each session is specially designed and catered to your child and your family. Each session is free of charge and you are provided with a high resolution disk of edited photos ready for printing and four sheets of professional quality prints. Our photographers are willing to travel to your home, hospital, school. We want to capture a moment in the day in the life of you and your child.

Each child is different and special in their own way. When dealing with a serious illness or life altering disability we know that sometimes it takes much more patience and time then a normal in house studio can provide. Each Photographer is hand picked and selected for that special reason alone." 

~ Tiny Light Foundation

Great changes ahead... (Starting summer 2013)

Everyone has a dream right? Whether it be traveling, work, kids, money, the perfect day or how you only dream to have a "me" day. How often do we just shrug it off and say "Oh, it's just a dream that will never happen".....?

I've been making up a lot of excuses for over a year now as to why My Dream would never work, or how I was being greedy to even think that my family would allow me to pursue my dream. Although I kept talking myself out of  pursuing my photography full time I just couldn't shake the idea that, maybe just maybe, I could make it work. Why did I keep thinking about how my husband, kids and extended family & friends would be affected by my decision? Why wasn't I thinking more about how a positive job change in my life would greatly have a huge positive affect on my husband & family? I realized after lots of thought, how my happiness in life would be so beneficial for everyone around me. Not to mention that I would become a better mother, wife, friend and photographer if I made this change....


Who would have ever though that I would be trading in a nice paycheck for a happier life and less pay? ;)

So here I am.....making a change. Cheers to a Dream come true!

So how am I going to schedule myself when it comes to my business (Lindsay Foster Photography)?

Well, first off, my husband & kids are, and always will remain my number one priority. So, therefore, I will be scheduling in very few weekend shoots so that I never have to look back and realize how much of their lives I have missed out on.

However, this does NOT mean I will be taking on less. I want more! Lots more. Although I specialize in newborn, birth and child milestone photography, I would LOVE to explore it all (excluding weddings of course). My open hours (come summer) will be Monday, Wednesday and Fridays (9-4pm) with the occasional weekend for Family photoshoots and mentoring.

I have to add that I am astounded and so grateful for everyone's support. A compliment from my friends and fans are the biggest applause I could receive. You all are my fuel to keep going. I can be very critical of my work, so it's always nice when I can post a picture and get such wonderful feedback.

Now, more than anything I will continue to seek your support and positive thoughts. This is a HUGE deal for me.

From my family to yours Thank you!!!